I like Christmas and it’s only one week to go or seven sleeps as people keep saying. The big problem I find, however, is I don’t get much work done in December.

Planning for Christmas actually takes a lot of time each year. There’s all the present buying (which I usually quite enjoy), wrapping, putting the decorations up, writing cards and christmas letters to people we don’t see so often, organising who’s going where over the holiday period and making sure there’s enough food in the house of the right sort (ie, a big enough turkey), christmas dinners, nativity plays, carol services, and all sorts of other little things that all add up to make December a very busy month.

All in all I often find that it’s actually quite a lot of fuss over something that tends to be over quickly and not always very pleasant. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m all for remembering the true spirit of Christmas and I love watching the kid’s nativity every year. I also really love seeing Santa Claus the Movie with Dudley Moore as Patch the elf, but most of the preparation is part of the Christmas day celebration itself, which tends to revolve around giving people presents, hoping I don’t get anything where I have to fake my smile of gratitude, and eating far too much food that probably took longer than really necessary to prepare. All the while, hoping that everyone gets along and no one says anything that’s going to cause offense (which can be really easy with a lot of families). In short Christmas can actually be really stressfull, not to mention the fact it’s never anything like the Christmas that movies and advertising imply we should have.

I’m not going to go into the details about what Christmas should be. I actually think enough other people will cover the Jesus angle. I just find myself wishing we did some of this all year round. I think I’d like to be able to make less effort at Christmas to include all these things and instead do them spontaneously the rest of the year. I want to have people over for a good dinner in other months too and give people presents on other days that aren’t their birthdays. I’d like to have pretty things in my house and the smell of yummy things baking regularly. But mostly I want to celebrate, appreciate and smile about good things all year round.

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2 Responses
  1. Malachi says:

    True sayings. I do like that events like christmas and Valentines, though over commericalised, are great time for reflection, and remembering the things that are important. That’s how I use them, not trying to get stressed but just do what I enjoy. I am going to be married soon, and can’t wait to create a cool, stress free christmas environment in my house!

    • Jess says:

      I agree that they can be great reminders for remembering important things but I’d prefer to give gifts and be romantic all year round etc. In a perfect world we shouldn’t need the reminder. I also find the biggest problemw ith just doing what I enjoy is that others have expectations of me and what I should do, at christmas especially. There’s always the risk other people will get offended by our actions when we try to just go with the flow. I just find at Christmas this is worst. It’s expected to do a lot of ‘traditional’ things.

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